How to create an AI boyfriend

It takes about five minutes. Here’s each step, and what makes the difference between a generic chatbot and someone who feels like him.

Design him
Portrait of Theo, an AI boyfriend in a knit sweater
Theo, 29

1. Make a free account

Sign up with your email and date of birth (you must be 18 or older), and tell him what to call you.

2. Name him and pick his age

Any name you like, and an age from 21 to 60. The name and age show up in his portrait caption and in how he talks about his life.

3. Choose his looks

Pick his hair, eyes, build, skin tone and usual style, plus optional details like “light stubble, round glasses”. Beau turns this into his portrait, which every later photo is based on.

4. Give him a personality

Choose up to four traits. Then describe how he talks; this matters more than anything else. Compare “nice” with “dry humour, short texts, calls me trouble”.

5. Add a backstory

A job, a city, a pet, a hobby. “Pastry chef in Chicago, loves jazz” gives him things to tell you about, so conversations don’t only revolve around you.

Tips for better conversations

  • Tell him real things about your day; he keeps notes and follows up.
  • Ask him questions back. He has a life too.
  • Ask for a photo when he mentions where he is.
  • If he drifts from the personality you want, just tell him. He adjusts.

Questions

How much does it cost to make an AI boyfriend?

Nothing. Creating your first companion is free; it uses one of your two free photos for the day.

Can I change him later?

You can make him a new profile photo from the chat menu. To change his personality, tell him in chat or create a new companion.

Meet him in about five minutes.

Design your AI boyfriend

Free to start. Adults 18+. Always safe for work.